{"id":11340,"date":"2021-10-05T11:23:27","date_gmt":"2021-10-05T05:53:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ecoleglobale.com\/blog\/?p=11340"},"modified":"2021-11-02T22:27:15","modified_gmt":"2021-11-02T16:57:15","slug":"how-to-educate-your-child-on-sexual-harassment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ecoleglobale.com\/blog\/how-to-educate-your-child-on-sexual-harassment\/","title":{"rendered":"How to educate your child on sexual harassment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, no parent in the world wants his child to face sexual abuse, but we ignore the fact that in today&#8217;s cruel world, no one is safe. You never know what comes into someone&#8217;s psyche. You can&#8217;t just stop someone else from thinking wrong, but what you can do at your best is to be aware of your children, talk to them and notice if there is something wrong in their behavior. There is nothing wrong with talking to your child regarding sex. The best thing you can do to save him from the world is to make him aware of what is wrong and what is right and what they should do if they fall into such a situation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Very often, kids do not know what has happened to them and are threatened by the abuser. They never tell anyone about the abuse. So you must talk to your kids and develop a friendly relationship with them so that they can share everything with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nowadays, many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ecoleglobale.com\/blog\/top-schools-in-india\/\">schools in India<\/a> have realized the importance of sexual education, and that&#8217;s why they have introduced it in their daily curriculum.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"color: blue;\">TYPES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are two types of sexual abuse<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contact abuse<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contact abuse is when someone touches a child in the wrong way and at the wrong places. Like the chest, buttocks, genital organs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Contact abuse involves sexual touching of a child&#8217;s body or making him touch someone else genital organs, penetration in the mouth, anus, or vagina of sexual organs, fingers, or any other objects.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Non-contact abuse<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many times the culprit abuses the child by not touching but making some abusive remarks or other things. Touch doesn&#8217;t need to be involved in sexual abuse. Forcing a child to watch live sexual acts or make them see photos of such kind. Making sexually suggestive remarks either verbally or through online media. Exploiting the children by capturing uncomfortable images of children and disturbing them or threatening them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"color: blue;\">BEHAVIORS THAT SHOULD RAISE CONCERN<\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It might be possible that they are not going to tell you anything about the sexual abuse, but you can get alert if you see some behaviors which they do not do in general<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoiding certain people<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Becoming anxious or fearful<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Suddenly performing poor in academics<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-harming and suicidal thoughts<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Returning to previous childish habits for e.g., thumb sucking<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Recurrent nightmares or bed-wetting<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Runs away from home or school<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Inappropriate sexual knowledge or behaviors<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not talking to anyone<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you see them cry<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spending most of the time alone in their room<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not going out with friends<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apart from behavior, there are some physical symptoms of child abuse. These are<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Difficulty in walking or sitting<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bloody, torn or stained underclothes<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pain, injury or discharge in the genital area<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Frequent urinary or yeast infections<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bruises in body<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Signs of pregnancy in the teenager<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>WARN YOUR CHILD\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is indeed challenging to change the mentality of people, but you can always warn your child to stay away from certain types of people who you think are inappropriate. And you can also make sure that they are not around these kinds of people. Some of the behavior of people whom kids should stay away from are<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People who find ways to be alone with the child i.e., suggesting outings alone, offering to look after or babysit alone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ignore the child&#8217;s need for privacy e.g., bathroom.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Give gifts or money for no particular reason.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Communicate excessively with the child- text messages, calling, etc.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Try to get close to them.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never ignore a child who has any of the above symptoms or who reports sexual abuse. Try to talk to them and listen carefully to what he is saying and seek medical help if a child is portraying behavior that raises concern to take him aside and ask him what is wrong with him, what is bothering him. Do not shout at him, and he has already gone through a lot of things. And remember that it&#8217;s not his fault. Stay calm and support them this way; they will share everything with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you get to know anything suspicious or display behavior of sexual abuse, take him to the hospital and report the incident to the police. You must make a step so that no other child has to face the same sexual abuse. Plus, it will boost confidence in your child that you are always there for him, and he&#8217;ll be able to deal with such situations in the future. And this incident might have a grave impact on him inside out, and you have to talk to him and help him to forget what happened and move ahead in life.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And always remember that both boys and girls can become a victim of child sexual abuse.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Well, no parent in the world wants his child to face sexual abuse, but we ignore the fact that in today&#8217;s cruel world, no one is safe. You never know what comes into someone&#8217;s psyche. 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